A few years ago, I came to a conclusion. If I couldn't make at least $10,000 in a day, I wasn't going to go to work.
SOUNDS CRAZY, RIGHT?
I agree. But it's true. I made a conscious decision that going into work wasn't worth it, if the result wasn't at least a 10k day.
Now, I know that some of you are thinking - no way, I could never do that, you're a lawyer so it’s different, you're Nicole so it’s different, my work or business could never result in my making that kind of money....(insert objection here).
This is the thing. You actually CAN do it, and none of the objections you made (or the ones I made for you) are really holding you back. The other thing that isn't holding you back is the actual sum of 10k, or 50k, or even $500.
If you ask most people if they would like to make a million dollars a year, they'd say yes. But for most, that “Yes” is qualified - what would you need to do, to make that kind of (or more) money?
Our weaknesses. Ugh. NOT a pleasant topic... just thinking about my own makes my energy go straight into the toilet.
It seems like "fixing our flaws" is the way to go, doesn't it? Trying to be a better person by changing that which is the worst in us is really a great idea, right?
I don't think so, actually. I think we become a better person, a better leader, a better entrepreneur...when we do the opposite: when we do even more of what already makes us great.
I've been asked, many times, what has been the single biggest thing that catapulted my business and income over the last several years, especially since much of the growth happened during and after my being diagnosed with a rare lung disease.
For so many years in work and business, I had no idea what would make me stand out, as a success (or even as a failure) from other people. What I ended up learning was much like the journey of Dorothy from the Wizard of Oz - I...
I'm involved in several groups related to entrepreneurship, and I gotta say, it is one of my favorite things in the world. I absolutely love being around high-energy, achieving people - it totally feeds my personal energy.
In March 2016 I was challenged to do a talk, limited to 10 minutes, that would bring either $250,000 value or $250,000 savings to a group of entrepreneurs at the Genius Network. These days, I'm not easily intimidated, but I really was for this one! Somehow I got my big girl panties on and made it happen. :) The good news? It was well received.
In this video, I talk about how I was unexpectedly diagnosed with a rare lung disease, and ultimately had to spend an extended time in the hospital, and then recovering. This could have been a business disaster, but it wasn't...in fact, we went on that year to make more money than ever.
This wasn't by accident. It takes smart planning.
This video, which captured my talk,...
When you think about all the things you SHOULD be doing, it's easy to come up with stuff, right?
You should exercise more. You should spend more quality time with your kids. You should start that business you keep talking about. You should learn how to present yourself better so you can get what you want. You should _____________ (fill in the blank).
But what is hard, really, is having absolute clarity on what you shouldn't be doing.
Just like the easy "should's", it's easy to say, I shouldn't drink, be a couch potato, eat ice cream every night, bite my nails...you get the point.
I'm talking about the things that suck the life out of you. That make you tired, and irritable, on a daily basis. That when you do them, you feel like you're pushing a boulder uphill.
The things that make you unproductive and ineffective - or at the very least, less productive and effective.
The other day in my mastermind group, one of the focuses was on how we take care of ourselves, and how it affects our personal productivity. It sparked a lot of conversation because the premise was intriguing:
"Say you have a million dollar racehorse. Your goal is to get that horse to win! So, to do this, do you feed it crap, work it too hard, don't allow it to rest, and never give it a day off?
No, of course not.
You feed the horse the best food available, and ensure that it has adequate nutrition. You make sure the horse works out, but not too hard, or it won't be able to perform at its best. You make sure that it has the rest it needs, inlcuding the days off it must have to be at its best performance level...right? Otherwise, what is the point of having a million dollar racehorse?"
Think about it. What are your dietary habits like? Your workouts - do you work yourself too...
One of the biggest challenges of all entrepreneurs, but especially female entrepreneurs, is gathering the courage to charge what you're worth.
It seems silly, but it is oh-so-true...and as hard as it may be for some of you to believe, I struggled BIG TIME with this for years.
What made the difference? How did I turn it around?
Join me Thursday, April 14 at 4:00 p.m. EST on my Nicole Wipp Facebook Page - LIVE! to find out.
Did you hear about the "Facebook Live" Challenge I set for myself this month? If not, learn about it here.
If yes, and you want to know what you might be getting yourself in for, here's the first week schedule. I would LOVE feedback, participation, and suggestions - that's actually what motivates me, so please, do it by posting on my page!
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Find Your Focus Friday (April 1):
Why Fixing Your Flaws is A Bunch of Crap (You're Awesome, and This is Why)
Smart Success Saturday (April 2):
10 Business Lessons I Learned From Doing Yoga
Social NOTWorking Sunday (April 3):
Why A Paycheck Isn't Security (How To Achieve Real Financial Security)
Motivation Monday (April 4):
Book Banter & Giveaway (Dan Sullivan's "Wanting What You Want")
"That's A Good Question" Tuesday (April 5):
What Do You...
One of the things I promised myself I would do this year is continually put myself in situations where I feel exceedingly uncomfortable.
That's where Facebook Live comes in. I've vowed to do an entire month, every day, of live video - from my Facebook Page!
If you have any great ideas or requests for episodes, make sure to share them with me on my Facebook Page. (This is also, by the way, the page you will watch the video...
For anyone that is looking to start a business in their late 30's, 40's, 50's and beyond, one of the biggest challenges is going from a place of comfort (the known) to a place of vulnerability (the unknown).
I have many female friends that are considered, rightly, to be amazingly successful by "typical" standards. We are talking CEO's, heads of major departments in Universities, multi-million dollar entrepreneurs, doctors, lawyers...you get it. I also have many friends that are successful in many other but equally important ways, such as mothers of multiple children, those that support their spouses (emotionally and/or financially), as excellent employees in their chosen profession, as incredible and supportive friends.
The one thing that happens, no matter where you stand after a certain point in your life, is that you are used to it. Even when it may be bad, or not something that makes you happy ... you are used to it, so you put up with it.
This is one of, if...
It's International Women's Day, and I couldn't think of a more appropriate thing to say than this:
And this is true, by the way, whether you're a woman or a man...because it really doesn't matter.
THAT BEING SAID, I'm going to take this opportunity to celebrate women, especially the women I know and admire.
Everywhere I turn, I see women I know doing amazing things. Sometimes, that amazing thing is staying home and simply taking care of the children. (I think that is a heroine's journey, personally.) Supporting their spouse, emotionally, financially, personally. Working every day, getting the kids fed, clothed, homework-ed, activit-ied, and starting all over again.
I tell you what, no matter what anyone says, that takes grit.
What I wish, though, for all of the women I know, is that you don't lose yourself in the process. Celebrate yourself. Take care of yourself. Acknowledge that you are a separate person, outside of your family, and...