When you think about all the things you SHOULD be doing, it's easy to come up with stuff, right?
You should exercise more. You should spend more quality time with your kids. You should start that business you keep talking about. You should learn how to present yourself better so you can get what you want. You should _____________ (fill in the blank).
But what is hard, really, is having absolute clarity on what you shouldn't be doing.
Just like the easy "should's", it's easy to say, I shouldn't drink, be a couch potato, eat ice cream every night, bite my nails...you get the point.
I'm talking about the things that suck the life out of you. That make you tired, and irritable, on a daily basis. That when you do them, you feel like you're pushing a boulder uphill.
The things that make you unproductive and ineffective - or at the very least, less productive and effective.
Those are...